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egpnkhop>Kd;khjpup K];ypk;

,];yhk; typAWj;Jk; r%f cwTld; rk;ge;jg;gl;l ,ghjj;Jf;fspy; FLk;g cwitg; NgZtJ kpf Kf;fpakhdjhFk;. r%f cUthf;fk; vDk; ,];yhkpa ,yl;rpaj;ij mila FLk;g cwT rPu;gLjy; ,d;wpaikahjjhFk;. ,t; tifapy; ey;y r%f khw;wj;ij Vw;gLj;j ey;y FLk;g cwTfis Vw;gLj;j Ntz;Lk;.

Jujp\;ltrkhf khu;f;f <LghL cs;s gyuplk; $l ,d;iwa r%f R+oy; ,uj;j cwit tpl el;igAk; ,ilapy; xl;bf;nfhz;l cwitAk; Kf;fpaj;Jg; gLj;Jk; epiy ,d;W Njhd;wpAs;sJ.

el;Gf;fhfTk;> ,d;Dk; gy njhlu;GfSf;fhfTk; Neuj;ijAk;> gzj;ijAk; nrytplj; jahuhfTs;s gyu; FLk;g cwTf;fhf rpy epkplq;fisf; $l Jwf;fj; Jzptjpy;iy.

el;Gk; Vida cwTfSk;> ehkhfj; Nju;T nra;gitahFk;. ,uj;j cwT my;yh`;tpd; Nju;thFk;. ,td; cd; thg;gh> ,td; cd; rhr;rh> ,td; khkh> ,td; cd; rNfhjud; vd;gJ my;yh`; nra;j Nju;thFk;. ,e;jj; Nju;Tf;F Kf;fpaj;Jtk; nfhLg;gJ khu;f;ff; flikahFk;.

<khDld; rk;ge;jg;gl;lJ:

,uj;j cwitg;NgZtJ ntWk; r%ff; fl;likg;gpw;fhf kl;Lk; mtrpa khdjy;y. ,];yhkpa Nehf;fpy; ,J <khdpd; mk;rq;fspy; xd;whFk;.

'ahu; my;yh`;itAk;> kWik ehisAk;> <khd; nfhs;fpd;whNuh mtu; FLk;g cwitr; Nru;e;J elf;fl;Lk;' vd egp(]y;) mtu;fs; $wpdhu;fs;.

mwptpg;gtu;: mg;Jy;yh`; ,g;D k];Cj;(uyp)

Mjhuk; : Gfhup> K];ypk;

my;yh`;tpd; kPJk; kWikapd; kPJk; xU K];ypk; nfhz;Ls;s <khdpd; ntspg;ghLfspy; xd;whff; FLk;g cwitg; Ngzp elj;jYk; mike;Js;sJ. vdNt> FLk;g cwitg; Ngz cWjp vLg;Nghkhf

my;yh`;Tld; njhlu;G :

Vw;fdNt ,uj;j cwT vd;gJ my;yh`;tpd; Nju;T vd;W $wpNdhk;. ,e;jj; Nju;it Vw;W kjpg;gjd; %ykhf vkf;F my;yh`;Tld; njhlu;G cz;lhfpd;wJ.

my;yh{`jMyh ,uj;j cwitg; ghu;j;J 'ahu; cd;idr; Nru;e;J elf;fpwhNdh ehd; mtidr; Nru;j;Jf; nfhs;Ntd;. ahu; cwitj; Jz;bj;Jf; nfhs;fpd;whNdh ehd; mtDld; njhlu;igj; Jz;bj;J tpLNtd;' vd;W $wpdhd;.

mwptpg;gtu;: mG+`{iuuh(uyp)

Mjhuk; : Gfhup

vd;w mwptpg;gpd; %yk; FLk;g cwitg; NgZtJ my;yh`;Tldhd cwitg; NgZtjw;Fr; rkkhf;fg; gLtijAk; ehk; fhzyhk;.

',uj;j cwT mu;\py; nfhOfg; gl;Ls;sJ. mJ ahu; vd;idr; Nru;e;J elf;fpwhNdh my;yh`; mtidr; Nru;e;J nfhs;thd;. ahu; vd;idj; Jz;bj;J elf;fpd;whNdh> my;yh`; mtidj; Jz;bj;J tpLthd;' vdf; $Wk; vd egp(]y;) mtu;fs; $wpdhu;fs;.

mwptpg;gtu; : Map\h(uyp)

Mjhuk; : Gfhup> K];ypk;

,e;j mwptpg;Gk; FLk;g cwitg; NgZtjd; mtrpaj;ij typAWj;Jk; mNjNtis> ,jw;F khwhfr; nray; gLNthiuf; fz;bf;fTk; nra;tJ ftdpf;fj; jf;fjhFk;.

Rtdj;jpy; Eiotpf;Fk;:

,uj;j cwTfSld; R%fkhfT+k;> ,jkhfTk; ele;J nfhs;tJk; Rtdj;jpy; Eiotpf;fj;jf;f rpwe;j nraw;ghlhfg; Nghw;wg;gLfpd;wJ.

xU kdpju; egp(]y;) mtu;fsplk; te;J 'my;yh`;tpd; J}jNu! vd;idr; Rtdj;jpy; Eiotpj;J eufj;ij tpl;Lk; J}ukhf;ff; $ba xU mkiy vdf;Fr; nrhy;ypj; jhUq;fs; vd;whu;

mjw;F egp(]y;) mtu;fs;>

'eP my;yh`; xUtidNa tzq;f Ntz;Lk;. mtDf;F vijAk; ,izitj;J tplhNj! njhOifia epiy epWj;J> ]fhj;Jk; nfhLj;Jth> FLk;g cwitg; Ngzpf;nfhs;' vd;whu;fs;.

mwptpg;gtu; : `hypj; ,g;D i]j; my; md;]hup(uyp)

Mjhuk; : Gfhup> K];ypk;

Rtdk; nry;y tpUk;Ggtu;fs; Nkw;Fwpj;j Nehf;fpy; nray;gl;L FLk;g cwitg;Ngz Kd;tu Ntz;Lk;.

,uj;j cwitg; NgZtjhy;> kWikg; NgWfs; kl;Lkd;wp ,k;ikapYk; ,dpa gad;fSs;sjhf ,];yhk; $Wfpd;wJ.

'ahu; jdf;F up];fpy; tp];jPuzj;ijAk; ePz;l MAisAk; tpUk;Gfpd;whNuh mtu; mtu; ,uj;j cwitg; Ngzpf;nfhs;sl;Lk;.

mwptpg;gtu; : md];(uyp)

Mjhuk; : Gfhup> K];ypk;

vJtiu Nru;e;J elg;gJ :

rpyu; vt;thWjhd; ey;y Kiwapy; ele;J nfhz;lhYk;> Fiwfz;L nfhz;Nl ,Ug;gu;> Fj;jpg; Ngrpf;nfhz;Nl ,Ug;gu;> ,g;giftu;fSlDk; ,ize;J elg;gNj rupahd ,uj;j cwitg; NgZk; KiwahFk;.

'jd;Dld; ,ize;J ,Ug;NghUld; Nru;e;J elg;gtd; ,uj;j cwitg; NgZgtdy;y. cz;ikapy; jd;Dld; cwitj; Jz;bj;jhYk; cwT NgZtNj ,uj;j cwitr; Nru;e;J elg;gtdhthd;' vd egp(]y;) mtu;fs; $wpdhu;fs;.

mwptpg;gtu;:mg;Jy;yh`; ,g;D mk;upg;Dy; M];(uyp)

Mjhuk; : Gfhup

,Nj epiyia xU Njhou; egp(]y;) mtu;fsplk; ,t;thW Kiwapl;lhu;.

'vdf;F rpy cwtpdu;fs; ,Uf;fpd;wdu;. mtu;fSld; xl;b ele;jhy; mtu;fs; ntl;br; nry;fpd;wdu;. ehd; mtu; fSf;F ed;ik nra;fpd;Nwd;. mtu;fNsh vdf;Fj; jPik nra;fpd;wdu;. ehd; mtu;fSld; fUizAld; ele;J nfhs;fpd;Nwd;. mtu;fs; vd;Dld; fLikahf ele;J nfhs;fpd;wdu; vd;whu;. mjw;F egpathfs;> eP $WtJ Nghy; eP ele;J nfhz;lhy; my;yh`;tplkpUe;J xU cjtpahsu; cdf;F epakpf;fg;gl;bUg;ghu;' vd egp(]y;) mtu;fs; $wpdhu;fs;.

mwptpg;gtu;: mG+`{iuuh(uyp)

Mjhuk; : K];ypk;

vdNt> Kbe;jtiu midtiuAk; ehk; mZrupj;J> tpl;Lf;nfhLj;J ,zq;fpr; nry;y Kay Ntz;Lk;. ,JNt> cz;ik ahd ,uj;j ge;jkhFk;.

fh/gpuhd cwT :

vkf;F fh/gpuhd ,uj;j cwT ,Ue;jhYk; mtu;fSf;Fupa me;j];j;ijf; nfhLf;f ehk; jaq;ff; $lhJ. ,jpy; ,];yhk; vt;tsT J}uk; tprhykhfr; rpe;jpf;fpd;wJ vd;gijg; gpd;tUk; mwptpg;G czu;j;Jfpd;wJ.

'ePq;fs; epr;rakhf vfpg;ijf; ifg;gw;WtPu;fs; mg;NghJ mtu;fSld; kpf RKfkhfT+k; ele;J nfhs;Sq;fs;. Vnddpy;> cq;fSf;F mtu;fSld; FLk;g cwTk; – jpUkz cwTk; cs;sJ vd egp(]y;) mtu;fs; $wpdhu;fs;.

mwptpg;gtu; : mG+ju;(uyp)

Mjhuk; : K];ypk;

,];khapy;(miy) mtu;fspd; jhahu; md;id `h[uh mtu;fs; fpg;jp ,dj;jtuhthu;. mt;thNw egp(]y;) mtu;fspd; kfd; ,g;wh`pkpd; jha; kupaJy; fpg;jpahTk; ,e;j ,dj;ijr; Nru;e;jtu;fshthu;fs;. ,jidNa egp(]y;) mtu;fs; Nkw;Fwpj;j egpnkhopapy; Fwpg;gpl;lhu;fs;. jdf;Fg; gy Mapuk; Mz;LfSf;F Kd;du; tho;e;j `h[uh mtu;fspd; FLk;g cwTf;F Kf;fpaj;Jtk; nfhLj;J vjpu;fhyj;jpy; ele;J nfhs;SkhW egp(]y;) mtu;fs; $wpAs;shu;fs; vd;why; vkJ cld; gpwg;Gf;fs;> vkJ ngw;Nwhupd; cld; gpwg;Gf;fs;> mtu;fSila Foe;ijfSld; ehk; vt;tsT ,q;fpjkhf ele;Jnfhs;sg; gzpf;fg;gl;Ls;Nshk; vd;gij vz;zpg;ghu;f;f ehk; flikg;gl;Ls;Nshk;. mj;Jld; egp(]y;) mtu;fs; ,jidf; $Wk; NghJ me;j fpg;jp ,dj;jtu; fpwp];jtu;fshf ,Ue;jdu; vd;gJk; Fwpg;gplj; jf;fJ.

vdNt> fhgpu;fshf ,Ue;jhy; $l ,uj;j cwTfSf;F ehk; Kf;fpaj;Jtk; toq;fj; jtwf; $lhJ.

,];yhj;jpw;F vjpuhf ,uj;j cwT:

,uj;j cwT ,];yhj;jpw;F vjpuhf fpsu;e;J tUnkd;why; mg;NghJ ,uj;j cwit tpl nfhs;if cwNt Kjd;ik ngWk; vd;gijAk; ehk; ftdj;jpy; nfhs;s Ntz;Lk;. my;yh`;Tf;Fk;> mtd; J}jUf;Fk; vjpuhfr; nray;gLNthu; kPJ cz;ikahd ghrj;ijAk; Nerj;ijAk; nrhupa KbahJ. ,jidg; gpd;tUk; trdk; %yk; mwpayhk;.

my;yh`;itAk;> ,Wjp ehisAk;> ek;Gk; r%fj;jpdu;> my;yh`;itAk;> mtdJ J}jiuAk; gifj;Jf; nfhz;ltu;fis Nerpg;gtu;fshf (egpNa!) ePu; fhzkhl;Bu;. mtu;fs; jq;fs; ngw;NwhuhapDk; jq;fs; Gjy;tu;fshapDk;> jq;fs; rNfhjuu;fshapDk;> jq;fs; FLk;gj;jpduhapDk; rupNa; (Vnddpy;) mj;jifatu;fspd; ,jaq;fspy;> (my;yh`;) <khid vOjp(g; gjpj;J) tpl;lhd;; NkYk;> jd;dplkpUe;J (mUs; vd;Dk;) Md;khitf; nfhz;L gyg;gLj;jpapUf;fpd;whd;; Rtu;f;fr; Nrhiyfspy; vd;nwd;Wk; ,Uf;Fk;gb mtu;fis gpuNtrpf;fr; nra;thd;; mtw;wpd; fPNo MWfs; Xbf;nfhz;bUf;Fk;. my;yh`; mtu;fisg; nghUe;jpf; nfhz;lhd;; mtu;fSk; mtidg; nghUe;jpf; nfhz;lhu;fs;; mtu;fs; jhk; my;yh`;tpd; $l;lj;jpdu;; mwpe;Jnfhs;f: epr;rakhf my;yh`;tpd; $l;lj;jpdu; jhk; ntw;wp ngWthu;fs;. (59:22)

,e;j trdj;jpd; gb egpj; Njhou;fs; jkJ je;ij> rNfhjuu;fs; neUq;fpa cwtpdu;fs; vd;w ghFghbd;wp Nghu;f; fsq;fspy; vjpu;j; jug;gpy;; ,Ue;j gyiuf; nfhd;Ws;sdu;. ,uj;j cwitf; fhuzk; fhl;b rj;jpaj;jpw;F vjpuhd nraw;ghLfSf;F cjt KbahJ.

my;yh`;it kpQ;rp ,uj;j cwT Xq;fyhfhJ

,uj;j cwTfSf;F Kf;fpaj;Jtk; nfhLf;f Ntz;Lk;. Mdhy;> mJ vy;iy kPwpr; nrd;W tplf; $lhJ. my;yh`;itAk;> mtdJ J}jiuAk;tpl ngw;NwhiuNah> kw;w cwtpdu;fisNah xU K/kpd; Nerpf;f KbahJ. ,jidg; gpd;tUk; trdk; ,g;gb tpgupf;fpd;wJ.

egp (]y;) mtu;fSk;> 'cq;fspy; vtUf;Fk; ehd; mtuJ jha;> je;ij gps;isfs; kPJ kdpj r%fj;ij tplTk; tpUg;gj;jpw;Fupatdhf Mfhjtiuapy; ePq;fs; <khd; nfhz;ltu;fshf KbahJ.

(Mjhuk; :K];ypk;)

vd;w egpnkhop %yk; etpd;Ws;shu;fs;. vdNt ngw;Nwhu;fs; kPNjh> FLk;gj;jpdu; kPNjh ghrk; itf;Fk; NghJ me;jg; ghrk; vy;iy kPwpr; nrd;W tplhtz;zk; mtjhdpj;Jf; nfhs;s Ntz;Lk;.

vdt> FLk;g cwitg; Ngzp ele;J my;yh`;tpd; mUisAk; md;igAk; ngWtJld; 'FLk;g cwitj; Jz;bj;jtd; Rtdk; Eioa khl;lhd;'

mwptpg;gtu; : [{igu; ,g;D Kj;,k;(uyp)>

(Mjhuk;: K];ypk;> Gfhup)

vd;w mz;zyhupd; vr;rupf;iff;F mg;ghw;gl;l $l;lj;jpy; ,ize;J nfhs;Nthkhf!